Kill the Shoulds

Whose voice is that, really?

@shaiden

Kill the Shoulds

02 / 05

A lot of what you think you should do is just someone else's fear wearing your name.

@shaiden

Kill the Shoulds

03 / 05

You picked up a voice from parents, teachers, culture, the algorithm.

Keep the shoulds that survive a second look. Drop the rest. What's left is where your real life goes.

@shaiden

Kill the Shoulds

04 / 05

Half the rules I was living by, I'd never once actually agreed to.

@shaiden

Kill the Shoulds

05 / 05

Your turn

Put a 'should' on trial.

Pick one and ask honestly: is this mine, or did I just inherit it? Then keep it or kill it.

@shaiden

01 / 05

Kill the Shoulds

A lot of what you think you should do is just someone else's fear wearing your name.

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Half the rules I was living by, I'd never actually agreed to — I'd just absorbed them from parents, school, culture, the feed. Keep the ones that survive a second look. Drop the rest.

#thegameoflife #freedom #authenticity #conditioning

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